"Ameliana Strolling the Ramadan Bazaar" 2018. Oil on Canvas. 30" x 24" |
She did not face any issues during her early teenage years
however at 18, she started to experience a sudden ear block on her left ear
which she had thought was due to swimming. It did not subside for months and
she also started to experience severe headaches. Upon undergoing an MRI, it was
revealed that she had a large growth on her auditory nerve which cause the
blockage and hearing loss. She also had another on her right auditory nerve and
several others in her brain. It was then they relooked at her medical history
and concluded she has NF2.
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The loss of her hearing and medication to help with the
brain swelling, which at one point caused her to temporarily lose her vision, made
her mentally unstable and she had to make a difficult decision to withdraw from
her Biomedical diploma to focus on her recovery. She had slipped into
depression feeling lost with the now silent world and facing rejections from
family members, friends and later on while trying to resume schooling and
eventually on getting a job. Thanks to her supportive love ones especially her
partner, Damian, she was able to keep fighting on even when things look bleak.
Damian had also helped her cope with learning a new way to
communicate with each other via texting, writing and creating their own sign
language. It spurred her on to attend sign language classes that brought her
into the world of the Deaf community.
Being with other Deaf individuals, she learned how to adapt better into
the silent world and became more positive. During the same time, she was
offered a job as a Junior Operation Executive at a translation company where
she liaises with translators from all over the world online. The job role had
boost her confidence and self-esteem as she was given an equal opportunity and
treated the same way as hearing individuals. She did not feel she was seen as
different.
After gaining 5 years of experience, Amy decided to take a
leap of faith and challenge herself further by switching to a multinational
company to become an administrative assistant for office support. Her job there
requires her to communicate with individuals directly unlike at her previous
workplace and handle more roles. She hopes with different roles, she would
eventually find out what is her niche and at the same time she would like to
create awareness for people with special needs and illness. That through her
presence working in the company and constant feedbacks on how the company can
assist her, that it will be a more inclusive place which might open up more job
opportunities in the future for this group
Being an active person, she joined a dragonboat team
comprising of deaf paddlers and hearing volunteers. Later she also signed up to
a gym and started to do more strength training which had helped play a part in
improving her balance tremendously. Yet again with the support and
encouragement of Damian, she has also tried more things such as going back to
cycle on 2 wheels and hiking. Still, her favorite is swimming as she loves
being in the water. Together, they had
also swam with wild dolphins in Perth during their holiday.
Amy believes that with NF2, every moment is very precious and therefore we should seize each and every single day. We should not let the future scare us and prevent us from attempting new things or even revisiting things we used to do. She believes to that as long as you know your limit, give it a try. At least you won’t have to look back wishing you had done it back when it was possible.
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