Wednesday, September 4, 2019

A Portrait of Progress - Ashok's New Face (#25, #52, #57, #69)

"Ashok Holding up the Bean" 2019. 30" x 24" Oil on Canvas.
September 2019 Update:
Prep Sketch for "Ashok Holding up the Bean"
I am starting the next painting of Ashok post 3rd surgery. This will be the fourth oil painting that charts his progress through the surgeries with the most recent surgery focused on the addition of his prosthetic eye. The eye was an additional $1500 that my drawing friends in Omaha helped fundraise. My friend Regina and I drove out to Chicago to spend Labor Day weekend with Ashok. On the first day he took us to the Hindu Temple of Greater Chicago located in Naperville, Illinois and then later that evening we drove into the city and visited Cloudgate (the Bean) and Millenium Park. Ashok is an avid photographer and took tons of photos, but in a fun turn of events, I was able to capture a whimsical one of him experiencing "the Bean" as most people call that sculpture. The second day was devoted to driving out to Rochelle, Ill and going to a place called the Kitchen Table courtesy of our friends Michael and Stephanie Forbes--a couple who both have NF. The restaurant is a "pay what you can" community style establishment. This was Ashok's first time trying grits. Afterwards, Michael took us to the rail line where the BNSF and the UPRR cross which was a lot of fun to experience. In the afternoon, I spent some time drawing his portrait from life.

December 2018 Update:
Ashok Playing Jenga 30" x 24" oil on canvas. 2019 
I am starting the next painting of Ashok post 2nd surgery. This will be the third oil painting that charts his progress through the surgeries. His second surgery happened in July 2018 and the hospital bill has been paid. We are just trying to get his doctor bill paid off as well as the anesthesiologist's bill. Ashok is doing well and has connected with many friends who also have NF or have family with NF due to his involvement with NF Midwest. On Christmas Day he was invited over by a couple (both of whom have NF). They made cookies, played some games and had a wonderful time. This was Ashok's first time playing Jenga. I thought it made for a fun painting and it reminded me how much fun my family has just playing board games together. We are hoping that once the 2nd surgery is paid off, the 3rd surgery will be scheduled in the beginning part of 2019.

June 2018 Update:
This is the first painting of Ashok post 1st surgery. He dressed up in his national attire while my friend took photos of him for me to use as reference. He has nostrils now and I can tell where his mouth is formed. Drinking with a straw is now something he is able to do post surgery. I could understand him much more clearly on his 2nd visit to Omaha after the surgery. Progress is being made! I promised Ashok that if we could raise money for the last surgery where he would get his prosthetic eye, I would paint a life size portrait of him!
Prep Sketch for "Ashok Playing Jenga" - Post Surgery #2

For those of you new to the journey, I will start at the beginning:

Ashok Shrestha suffers from neurofibromatosis (NF), a genetic condition that results in the development of multiple tumors in the body. In 2016, he began raising funds to travel from Nepal to Presence St. Joseph Hospital in Chicago, IL, USA to have surgery to remove the tumors which have disfigured his face.

Ashok's visa was approved, and he arrived in Chicago in December of 2017.

After several consultations with the medical specialists and many tests, it was determined that Ashok required two surgeries: one for the tumors on his face and cranial reconstruction, and one to place a prosthetic eye. The cranial reconstruction is of course a risky and difficult procedure due to the exposure of the brain during the procedure. Ashok's skull will need to be literally taken apart and completely reconstructed, and the brain will lack support and protection during this most delicate part of the procedure.

"Ashok Visiting Creighton University" 30" x 24" 2018 Oil on Canvas
In addition, the cost of lodging in Chicago has been higher than he anticipated, and he needed someone to help him with meals and other needs after his has been discharged from the hospital, while he is still recovering from the surgery. He has no family and no traveling companion to provide him with day to day assistance and care.

Ashok's arrival in Chicago coincided with my art exhibit in Norfolk, Nebraska to raise NF awareness. It featured paintings of people with NF. This painting of Ashok is among the featured paintings in this exhibit. Ashok made a trip here to Nebraska to participate in the exhibit. My friend Mary and her husband offered him a place in their home while he was here. I was able to schedule several media interviews for him during his visit regarding neurofibromatosis in general and his situation in specific.

Prep Sketch 
Out of these interviews came a request for a US-based GoFundMe page to facilitate the additional fundraising needed to cover Ashok's surgeries, as well as any lodging and meals while he is in Chicago, and any after surgery care he requires during his recovery. My friend Mary stepped in and did all the logistics.

To read the story of Ashok's first visit to Omaha and his interview with the Omaha World Herald, click here:
http://www.omaha.com/livewellnebraska/plus/grace-disfigured-nepali-man-in-u-s-for-surgery-comes/article_89f10aec-d4a8-587a-b820-352dbf683e36.html

To see more of Ashok's story so far, you can read this article:

Original painting done in 2016
"Ashok Chatting with Friends"
We had many setbacks during this journey including the hospital reviewing his case and more than doubling the expected costs of the surgery. We are blessed that so many people stepped up and donated--including my friends, family and Creighton University along with the NF community and Nepali communities in Chicago and Omaha. In fact, all bills received for Ashok's first surgery have been paid in full! Thank you to each and every one of you who have made this possible!

You can see the difference in Ashok from this before and after picture. Dr. McKinnon was able to remove about 85% of the tumor:


The amounts paid specifically for the 1st surgery and recovery were:
$25,000 to Dr. McKay McKinnon
$26,500 to Presence St. Joseph's Hospital
$3,528 to Midwest Anesthesia Partners

The Chicagoland Nepali Friendship Society raised funds which covered a live-in caregiver for Ashok during the first month of his recovery. Members of the Nepali community in Chicago have also continued to provide Ashok with an apartment as he recovers and waits for his next surgery.

Before and after the first surgery
Thanks also to the family of Sheila Drevyanko, volunteer with the Iowa Chapter of the Children's Tumor Foundation. Her family has provided significant support, including transportation to and from the hospital and most doctor's appointments, furniture for the apartment, help with filling prescriptions and much more. We appreciate their "feet on the ground" support in Chicago.

We have come so far, farther than we would have thought possible! When the hospital nearly tripled their fees, none of us knew how we would ever have the funds necessary, but you all came through.

Please continue to share this campaign and contribute as you are able. We have only weeks before Ashok will be ready for the second surgery. Estimated cost is approximately less than $20,000. It isn't nearly the hurdle of the first one, but still... no small sum. All help is much appreciated!

https://www.gofundme.com/ashok-shresthas-surgeries

3 comments:

Unknown said...

How is he doing? Now? Has he gotten enough help? <3 He is brave!

Anonymous said...

Any updates on ashok's condition? What a genuinely strong human being.

SweetSerenity113 said...

I read a recent message from him, stating his is currently looking for work. Despite his surgery his livelihood is still hard because people are not hiring him because of his NF. He has no real way of supporting himself. It saddens me that the world lacks so much compassion. There was a man that the Pope kissed years ago that suffers from the same condition and he too struggled to care for himself financially. I believe that there should be a foundation for them because we live in a cruel world.