Case Study #103 - Mark Petting Misty

"Mark Petting Misty" Oil on Canvas. 2021. 30" x 24"

Mark's NF diagnosis came about through an unusual way. He had twisted an ankle pretty good and stopped in at his doctor's office to see if he could get in. He’d known for years something was going on with his body but his doctor couldn’t pin down what it was. The administrative secretary's nephew had come for a visit and stopped by the office to just say hi that same morning. He had a more severe case of NF and his doctor immediately made the connection. He came into the exam room where Mark was sitting and said “I know what you have.” Mark was dubious thinking “Yeah, a bent foot.” That was the day he received his diagnosis.

Prep Sketch for "Mark Playing with his Dog"

NF didn’t bother Mark much for quite a while. He was able to be real active in Search and Rescue for twenty years but did have to give that up as things with his NF progressed. Mark is one of the lucky few with NF2 who are fairly mildly affected. NF has taken far too many of his friends. He can still do most of what he wants, just some slower, but overall life is good.

Mark's connection with NF goes well past his own diagnosis. Mark met Marcy and Jay on an NF bulletin board years ago. This mother and son also had NF and the three of them became online friends. After a few years of Mark complaining about the winter they invited him down for a visit. They all hit it off and it became a yearly tradition. Two days before Mark's 2019 visit Marcy called and informed him that Jay was in the emergency room with a suspected stroke. Mark responded immediately and got his flight changed and came down the next day. When he got there they were transferring Jay to another hospital where he was diagnosed with the GBM tumor. Mark's three day visit turned into a three week visit while Jay had surgery and began his rehabilitation. Jay asked Mark if he’d stay and help his mom care for him. When Jay was stable enough Mark flew home and loaded up his car and came back. Jay had lots of doctor visits as well as home care professionals. Just short of a year after diagnosis the family lost him. One of the last things, Jay made Mark promise was that he’d stay and watch over his mom. He was more worried about her than himself. It was easy for Mark to say yes. The three of them all got along so well that Mark feels like they are family.  Although Mark never wanted to have kids from the time he met Jay,  he’d have been proud to call Jay his son. In Mark's words, "I can’t describe how great a person Jay was."

As to Mark's NF2 diagnosis, for a lot of years it was thought to be NF1 until his acoustic neuromas finally got big enough to identify as such. They’d shown up on MRI’s for some time but were too small to identify as such. They still real small as of my last one so I’m happy to leave them alone as long as they don’t bother me too much.